Oh...this picture. You think it disrespectful? It would be understandable. It’s not the most appropriate item, especially if discretion is the goal. It is a bit risque. Can you see what’s on the tie? Please note...if you can’t see what’s on the tie this blog will be confusing and senseless.
Did you see what’s on the tie?...... is your response “Oh my” and “it’s been placed on someones grave”. “Now that’s just taking things a little too far. The tie is naughty enough but now it’s on someones grave”.
Once again, your response is understandable. However, for those who knew Rusty and also know the origins of Ghost Tie this picture becomes both appropriate and fitting. You can be introduced to Rusty later. When you are introduced to Rusty you will better realize why the first picture of Ghost Tie was taken on his grave.
Ghost Tie has quickly become a family icon. He has been in the presence of my dad’s children and grandchildren for only a short time, about five months to be exact. Yet in his meteoric rise to familial stardom he has been seen and photographed literally around the world.
Ghost Tie has “covered” Mississippi. He has savored the aroma of the yellow rose of Texas. He has basked in the “mile high” air of Colorado. He knows the intoxicating lights of the Las Vegas strip. He has “hung out” with the ancient statuary of Greece.
Ghost Tie has felt the spray off the Aegean Sea. He has experienced the royalty of London. This week Ghost Tie returns to Europe to experience the deep musical roots of Austria and Germany. Soon Ghost Tie will be experiencing the northeast and visiting the ancient Inca sites in the mountains of Peru. ARE YOU TIRED YET??
My father possessed a vast number of ties. A significant number of them were cartoon and other novelty ties. He had Looney Tunes, Dr. Seuss and Tabasco ties just to name a few. His fun tie collection alone numbered over forty. It should be noted that all the male family members picked out one of his fun ties and wore it to his funeral.
Why Ghost Tie? His name came in a simple way. One of my Dad’s grandchildren had a picture Ghost Tie sent to him in a text message. He was then asked what he saw on the tie. The small image didn’t provide much clarity and he interpreted ghosts. Hence...Ghost Tie.
Ghost Tie was discovered as my sister and I where going through my Dad’s closet. This was our first encounter with him. We were slow to recognize him for what he was. He finally registered to us.
My siblings and I did not consider our parents naive. However, like most adult children, there has been the occasional “surprise” that caused us to respond with... “OMG”. (If OMG is unfamiliar, ask any teenager who converses through text messages.) This was pretty much an OMG moment for us. OMG quickly dissolved into an earnest desire to know the back story of Ghost Tie.
We were clamoring to know how Ghost Tie arrived in my father’s tie collection. Did he purchase it in order to flirt with my Mom? Did my Mom purchase it to flirt with him? Did someone else buy it as a practical joke or white elephant gift? Did my Dad purchase it not really realizing what he purchased? Our biggest question was....”did he wear this tie to church”?
So the legend of Ghost Tie begins. Ghost Tie has his own domain with future plans to develop a website for him. It will be fun to see how far traveled Ghost Tie will be....